Addressing resistance involves a gentle and supportive approach:

  • Normalise Their Feelings: Validate clients’ feelings and experiences without judgment. Let them know that it is common to overlook emotional manipulation in relationships, especially if they are accustomed to it.
  • Use Examples: Provide examples of negging behaviour in a non-confrontational way. Ask if they have ever experienced similar situations, prompting them to reflect on their relationships.
  • Empower Choices: Emphasise the importance of personal agency in relationships. Encourage clients to consider how they want to feel in their relationships and whether the current dynamics align with their desires. This can inspire them to re-evaluate their situations without feeling pressured.