When clients are ambivalent:

  • Explore Feelings: Create a safe space for clients to explore their feelings about the relationship, encouraging them to articulate their hopes and fears regarding both staying together and separating.
  • Pros and Cons List: Facilitate a pros and cons list for both options, which can help clarify their thoughts and feelings.
  • Focus on Values: Encourage clients to reflect on their core values and what they truly want from a relationship, which can inform their decision-making process.
  • Empower Decision-Making: Reinforce that the decision is theirs to make, and provide support regardless of the outcome, helping them feel empowered in their choice.